Hello friend,
Today I am sharing with you a personal inner-reflection.
I used to view putting others first as paramount, thinking that by doing so, I could manage expectations and keep certain people in my life.
I soon realized, however, that I was wandering from my true self and the life I wanted to lead. My expectations of others became unrealistic, so I decided to become more honest—with myself and those around me.
This reflection delivered some clarity in terms of the path I wanted to embark on, but was not without pain.
I now realize the importance of trusting my inner voice and, in turn, taking the necessary risks to achieve success. Intuition, I believe, is my greatest navigator, and my vision has to come from within.
Certainly, the journey can be tough and frighting; it’s often intimidating to remain committed to yourself, yet that’s essential for personal growth.
At the onset of this voyage, I desired to place others ahead of me. After being resolute with myself, I realized my purpose and realized my expectations of others were merely a reflection of my own beliefs.
Instead of seeking validation from the outside world, I now wish to seek validation solely from the inside. I am now more aware of the decisions I make because I understand that I’m solely accountable for my progress.
Life is turbulent with turns and twists, so it’s key that I entrust myself, take risks and remain strong in my authenticity. The more I forge my path, the nearer I get to realize what actually makes me whole.
It has also helped me to accept that everyone has their own path, and they need to be permitted to travel it without any pre-conceived judgments or expectations from me or others.
Even when I do not agree with their perspective, I attempt to be sympathetic, so I can genuinely comprehend and value them for who they are, not what I wish to see in them.
Overall, every day is an ongoing adventure, and if we can maintain an open-minded, sympathetic outlook, we may all reach our desired destinations- even if they differ drastically from our preferred version.
All the best,
Benno